Video calling is the single most valuable technology skill for adults over 70. Nothing else lets you see grandchildren's faces, join family gatherings from afar, attend doctor appointments from home, or maintain friendships without leaving your chair. The technology is simpler than you think — this guide walks you through setup on every type of device.
## Choosing the Right Video Calling Device
Video Calling Devices Compared
| Device | Cost | Best For | Setup Difficulty |
|---|---|---|---|
| Amazon Echo Show 10 | $250 | Easiest — just say 'Alexa, call...' | Very Easy |
| Apple iPad | $349-$599 | Best quality, FaceTime integration | Easy |
| Facebook Portal (Meta) | $129-$299 | Smart camera follows you around room | Easy |
| Smartphone | Already own | Always available, portable | Easy |
| Laptop/Desktop Computer | Already own | Large screen, good for groups | Moderate |
| Smart TV with camera | $20-$50 webcam add-on | Largest screen for group viewing | Moderate |
## The Easiest Option: Smart Display
If you want the absolute simplest video calling experience, an Amazon Echo Show or similar smart display is the answer. Say 'Alexa, call [name]' and you're connected. No tapping, no navigating menus, no opening apps. Family members can even 'drop in' — starting a video call to your device without you answering, like an intercom. This is ideal for adults with vision or dexterity challenges.
## Setting Up FaceTime on an iPad or iPhone
FaceTime Setup in 5 Minutes
## Setting Up Zoom for Doctor Appointments
Many healthcare providers use Zoom for telehealth appointments. Download Zoom from the App Store or Google Play. When your doctor's office sends a meeting link by email, tap the link to join automatically. You don't need an account to join someone else's meeting. Practice once with a family member before your first medical appointment.
## Video Calling Tips for the Best Experience
- Position the camera at eye level — prop the device on a stack of books if needed
- Sit facing a window or lamp so light illuminates your face, not your back
- Speak at normal volume — modern microphones are very sensitive
- Look at the camera (the small dot at the top) when talking, not at the screen
- Use headphones if you have hearing difficulty — they deliver sound directly to your ears
- Keep the device plugged in during long calls to prevent battery drain
- Close other apps before calling to ensure the best video quality
## Troubleshooting Common Problems
If the other person can't hear you, check that your microphone isn't muted (look for a microphone icon with a line through it). If video is dark, move to a brighter room or turn on a lamp facing you. If the call keeps dropping, move closer to your WiFi router or switch to a room with better signal. If everything freezes, close the app completely and restart it.
## The Drop-In Feature for Family Peace of Mind
Amazon Echo Show devices have a 'Drop In' feature that lets approved family members start a video call that connects automatically — you don't have to answer or press anything. This is particularly valuable for daily check-ins or if you have difficulty with technology. You control who has drop-in permission and can disable it anytime.
Set up one video calling method this week. Call a family member to test it. Once you experience seeing a grandchild's face on your screen, you'll wonder why you waited.