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3 Ways to Connect With Teen Grandkids (That Actually Work)

Ask about their world instead of quizzing them, send short texts to meet them where they are, and connect through shared activities. Three ways to reach teen grandkids.

What you'll learn

  1. Ask, don't quiz. One. Skip the report-card questions. Instead of how's school, ask what they're into right now, a game, a song, a video. Let them be the expert and teach you. Teens open up when they get to lead.
  2. Meet them there. Two. Send a quick text or a short message now and then. A funny photo, a happy birthday, a good luck on the game. A few words on their phone often lands better than waiting for a long sit-down talk.
  3. Do, don't sit. Three. Share an activity instead of a face-to-face chat. Cook, fish, build, or play a game side by side. Talk flows easy when you're both busy with your hands and nobody feels put on the spot.

Full transcript

One, skip the report card questions. Instead of how school ask what they're into right now, a game, a song, a video. Let them be the expert and teach you. Teens open up when they get to lead. Two, send a quick text or a short message now and then. A funny photo, a happy birthday, a good luck on the game. A few words on their phone often lands better than waiting for a long sit -down talk. Three, share an activity instead of a face -to -face chat. Cook, fish, build, or play a game side -by -side. Talk flows easy when you're both busy with your hands and nobody feels put on the spot.

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