If you are over 60 and want to travel but do not have a travel companion, you are in growing company. Solo travel among older adults has surged in the last five years, driven by several converging trends. More adults are widowed and do not want to stop traveling just because they lost their spouse. More are divorced and rediscovering independence. More have spouses who are unwilling or unable to travel but do not want to hold their partner back. And more have simply discovered that traveling alone, on your own terms, at your own pace, is one of the most freeing and rewarding things you can do in your sixties and seventies.
The concerns that stop most people from trying solo travel are legitimate but almost all solvable. Safety is the biggest worry, especially for women. Loneliness is the second — the fear of eating every meal alone, of having no one to share experiences with. Logistics is the third — navigating a foreign country without a partner to help with directions, language, and decisions. And cost is the fourth — the dreaded single supplement that makes solo travel 25 to 100 percent more expensive per person than travel for couples.
Every one of these concerns has practical solutions, and the older adults who push past the concerns and take their first solo trip almost universally report the same thing: it was more rewarding than they expected, it was less scary than they feared, and they plan to do it again. The rest of this article gives you the specific tools to address each concern and to plan your first solo trip with confidence.
The safety concerns that stop most older adults from solo travel are often based on a worst-case mental image that does not match reality. The vast majority of popular travel destinations are safe for solo older travelers, and the safety habits that protect you are the same common-sense habits you would use in any unfamiliar American city.
The basics: stay in well-reviewed hotels or rentals in central, well-lit neighborhoods. Do not walk alone at night in areas you do not know. Keep your valuables (passport, cash, cards) in a money belt or inside pocket rather than a purse or outer pocket. Carry a photocopy of your passport and leave the original in the hotel safe when you go out. Do not flash expensive jewelry or electronics. Tell someone your daily plans — a family member at home, the hotel front desk, or a fellow traveler you have met.
The single most useful safety tool for solo travelers in 2026 is your smartphone. It has GPS that works internationally (with the right data plan), translation apps that let you communicate in any language, ride-sharing apps that let you take safe, tracked transportation, and the ability to call emergency services in any country. Keep it charged, keep it accessible, and keep the emergency numbers for your destination saved in your contacts.
For women traveling solo: the additional precautions are modest and mostly about awareness. Trust your instincts — if a situation feels wrong, leave. Choose a hotel room on a middle floor (not ground floor, not top floor). Avoid sharing too much personal information with strangers. Consider joining a women-focused travel group for your first solo trip — organizations like Women Traveling Together, Solo Female Travelers, and ElderTreks offer group trips specifically for older women.
The statistical reality: older solo travelers are not at higher risk of crime than couples or group travelers in the same destinations. The perception of danger is much higher than the actual risk, and the safety habits above reduce even that modest risk to very low levels.
The fear of eating every meal alone in a restaurant is the concern that stops more would-be solo travelers than any other. The fear is understandable, and the solution is to choose travel formats that are socially built in.
Small group tours. Companies like Road Scholar (formerly Elderhostel), Intrepid Travel, G Adventures, Overseas Adventure Travel (OAT), and Tauck all offer small-group tours with 12-24 participants, many of whom are solo travelers. The group format provides instant companions for meals, sightseeing, and conversation, without requiring you to organize anything yourself. Several of these companies offer reduced or eliminated single supplements for solo travelers, making the pricing more affordable.
Cooking classes, walking tours, and day excursions. Even if you are not on a group tour, you can fill your days with social activities. A cooking class in Florence, a walking food tour in Lisbon, a wine tasting in Burgundy, a photography workshop in Kyoto — all of these bring you into contact with other travelers and create natural opportunities for conversation. Book one social activity per day and you will never feel isolated.
Communal dining. Many solo travelers find that the fear of eating alone evaporates after the first day. But if it persists, seek out restaurants with communal tables, bars where you can eat at the counter, and hotel restaurants with shared seating. River cruises are particularly good for solo travelers because the open-seating dining room means you eat with different people every night.
Stay in social accommodations. Boutique hotels, bed-and-breakfasts, and guesthouses tend to be more social than large chain hotels because the common areas are smaller and the staff and guests interact more naturally. Many B&Bs include a communal breakfast where you sit with other guests — a natural conversation starter that large hotels do not offer.
The single supplement is the surcharge that hotels, cruise lines, and tour operators add for solo travelers occupying a room designed for two. It is one of the most frustrating aspects of solo travel, and it can add 25 to 100 percent to the per-person cost of a trip. The justification is that the operator loses the revenue from the second person in the room, and they pass that cost to the solo traveler.
Several strategies reduce or eliminate the single supplement. First, some tour companies have reduced or eliminated single supplements entirely for certain departures. Road Scholar, Overseas Adventure Travel, and Intrepid Travel are among the most solo-friendly in this regard. Second, some cruise lines offer dedicated solo cabins on certain ships — smaller staterooms designed for one person at a price that is closer to the per-person double rate. Norwegian Cruise Line and several river cruise lines offer these.
Third, roommate matching. Some tour companies will pair solo travelers of the same gender who are willing to share a room, eliminating the single supplement entirely. Overseas Adventure Travel is particularly well-known for this.
Fourth, negotiate. Especially for hotel stays, the single supplement is often negotiable. Calling the hotel directly and explaining that you are a solo traveler sometimes results in a reduced rate, especially during shoulder season when occupancy is lower.
Fifth, choose accommodations where the single supplement does not exist. Airbnb, VRBO, and other vacation rental platforms charge the same price regardless of how many people stay in the property, so a solo traveler pays the same as a couple. For longer stays, this can save hundreds or thousands of dollars.
If you have never traveled solo and want to try it, start with something manageable. A weekend trip to a city a few hours from home. A domestic destination where you speak the language, know the culture, and have a safety net of familiarity. Once you have done one solo weekend successfully, the next step — a week-long trip, then an international trip — feels much less intimidating.
For your first international solo trip, consider a destination that is safe, English-speaking or English-friendly, well-organized, and has a strong tourism infrastructure. London, Dublin, Lisbon, and Barcelona are popular first international solo trips for older Americans. They are all safe, all have good public transportation, all have a culture of welcoming solo diners, and all have enough to fill a week without requiring complex logistics.
Alternatively, start with a small group tour. This gives you the solo travel experience (your own room, your own time, making your own choices) with the safety net of a group and a guide. Many solo travelers start with a group tour and graduate to fully independent travel on their second or third trip.
Whatever you choose, go. Do not wait for a companion who may never materialize. Do not wait until you feel perfectly ready, because perfect readiness does not exist. The first solo trip is always a little awkward, a little lonely in moments, and a little scary. It is also, for almost everyone who does it, one of the most empowering and memorable travel experiences of their adult life. The person who comes home from a solo trip is more confident, more independent, and more certain that the world is open to them than the person who left. That transformation is the real destination, and it is worth the small discomfort of the first few days alone.